Sweat of a Salesman Fact: Michael “Clay” Basham suggested that we get a gym membership to workout together. Since I was the only one paying for anything, I realized that a monthly membership would be a cheaper alternative. As negotiations with LA fFitness went on, Michael “Clay” Basham shifted from the gym as something we […]

Jaggoff Fact: Clay Basham masturbated in front of me on the first date, right after he learned I wasn’t going to have sex with him. My Astonishments, opinions and observations: At what point, in the infancy of dating someone, is it appropriate to pull out your junk and masturbate in front of your partner? I […]

The Cocaine Dealer Fact: Michael “Clay” Basham told me that he had a friend that was a cocaine dealer, and used to do a lot of cocaine with him. Michael “Clay” Basham told me that he used to distribute cocaine to co-workers, as well as partake in it, at a job he had a couple […]

Terror Fact: I have changed my locks twice since I met Michael “Clay” Basham. Once before he sucked me back in with his lies, and one final time. I had my very first night terror after debuting this sight. Opinions, Observations and Anecdotes: I was terrified to start this site.  There were too many “what […]

Did Michael Clay Basham Play Professional Basketball? Fact:  Michael Clay Basham told me along with some of my friends and my daughter that he played professional basketball in Europe.  He allegedly played in Turkey and other places throughout Europe.  So, I did some research. Spoiler alert!!! There isn’t ONE Basham listed that have ever played […]

Stay-at-Home-Dad Facts: Clay Basham told me, that when he left his ex wife, he was “basically a Stay-at-Home-Dad.” He also mentioned that “she was lucky he didn’t sue her for child support and spousal support” since he only made cash while coaching basketball. Clay told me that he systematically purchased furniture and household items for […]

I Must be a Bitter Old Maid ©2016 www.ClayBasham.com Facts: I was taken advantage of by Michael Clay Basham I want to help this from happening to someone else. My Opinions and Thoughts: I must be just bitter and disgruntled if I’m building a site like this, right? I mean, who else would dedicate so […]

Integrity Integrity is very important to me.  I strive to be true to my word and treat others how I would want to be treated, or how I would want someone to treat a person I care about.  I’m not perfect.  There have been times that I have bitten off more than I could chew, […]