Author: Sandra

Dysfunction

Sex with Clay, Part 2: Erectile Dysfuntion Facts: Throughout my relationship with Michael “Clay” Basham, he experienced issues with getting and maintaining an erection. When I tried to talk to him about it, he’d admonish me saying “You’re giving me a complex” or “you’re making it worse”. Rarely could Michael “Clay” Basham “finish” in one night […]

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Quarterback Sex

Sex with Clay, Part 1: Quarterback Sex Facts: Sex with Michael “Clay” Basham was unsatisfactory to me. Michael “Clay” Basham, would bark at me like a drill sergeant while having sex. Opinions and reflections: After having sex with Michael “Clay” Basham, much to my surprise, I was left horribly unsatisfied. It was what I call […]

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Discard

Relationship Phases of the Narcissistic Sociopath: Part 3: The Discard Phase Facts from the Discarding Phase: Throughout our relationship, Michael “Clay” Basham, borrowed about $5,000.00 cash. On top of cash loans, I paid for about 99.9% of everything in my relationship with Michael “Clay” Basham. My first loan to Michael “Clay” Basham was under the […]

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Devaluation

Relationship Phases of the Narcissistic Sociopath: Part 2: The Devaluation Phase Facts from the Devaluation Phase: Michael “Clay” Basham had frequent inconsistencies in his statements. Often, when Michael “Clay” Basham didn’t get exactly what he wanted, and how he wanted it, he’d make the Liver-Face (described below). If Michael “Clay” Basham wanted something from me, […]

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Sweat of a Salesman

Sweat of a Salesman Fact: Michael “Clay” Basham suggested that we get a gym membership to workout together. Since I was the only one paying for anything, I realized that a monthly membership would be a cheaper alternative. As negotiations with LA fFitness went on, Michael “Clay” Basham shifted from the gym as something we […]

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Terror

Terror Fact: I have changed my locks twice since I met Michael “Clay” Basham. Once before he sucked me back in with his lies, and one final time. I had my very first night terror after debuting this sight. Opinions, Observations and Anecdotes: I was terrified to start this site.  There were too many “what […]

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